A Simple Proof That Women Desire Patriarchy

The Test

Ask a woman, any woman:

In looking for a partner/man:

  • Would you prefer to date/marry someone more mature than yourself, less mature, or just as mature?

  • Would you prefer to date a guy who is more competent than yourself, less competent, or just as competent?

  • Would you prefer to date a guy who is more intelligent than yourself, less intelligent, or just as intelligent?

The Desire for Patriarchy

What you will find is that women almost always want a guy who is better than them in each of the above ways. Now, they might not admit it if you phrase it in a way that could hurt their feelings or their pride, but if you phrase it in a way that aligns with their feelings and their pride, then they almost certainly will. For example, you will rarely find a woman who will say she wants to date a guy worse than her – Try it, just ask her.

Ultimately women desire maximal competence, maximal maturity, and maximal intelligence… as long as it doesn’t affect the other things they also want maximally, like kindness, strength, humor, courage, etc. They pretty much want the best possible man,1 so long as he likes her, is (generally) nice to her, and commits to her.

A man, however, is more likely not to care, and might even be insecure if a woman is better than him in one of these categories – and justifiably so,2 because a man knows deep down that he should be better, that his performance is tied up with his masculinity, and that she wants him to be better. Women, after all, are more likely to feel contempt for an incompetent, weak, or immature man, whereas men are not nearly so harsh.

Now, if you desire and are choosing traits that make a good leader, you are in fact choosing a leader and do in fact desire a leader. Maturity, competence, and intelligence in men are attractive because and to the extent that they are leadership traits. And women naturally desire a leader, one who loves them and cares for them who they can submit to. In other words, women desire Patriarchy, though this desire is much suppressed in today’s (evil) Feminist society.

The Inevitability of Patriarchy

Because women desire Patriarchy and find male leadership traits attractive, they select men for these traits. The worse of a man a male is, the less attracted women will be and the less likely he will be chosen by one. Even if he does reproduce, he will have less sex and less kids, and the kids he does have will be less successful due to being raised in a family where Mom and Dad do not love each other, where Dad is weak and Mom does not respect Dad, where the marriage is either locked in power struggle or floundering in a power vacuum into which Mom at times resentfully steps.3

Whereas the better a man is, the more attracted women will be and the greater likelihood he will be chosen by one. Such men will generally have more sex and more kids, and those kids will be more successful due to being raised in a family where Mom and Dad love each other, where Dad is strong, Mom respects Dad, and Dad leads and Mom loves that he does.

And here we see the inevitability of Patriarchy. Why are men are taller than women? Because women want them to be, and have chosen them to be. Why are men stronger? Because women want them to be, and have chosen them to be. Why do men lead, and why does the Patriarchy exist? Because women want this, and have chosen it.

Men, and the Patriarchy itself, are in many ways the creation of women and their desires.

And guess who’s often the most upset about the Patriarchy? Incels who refuse to become attractive to women and give them what they want. Indeed, every generation Incels go through a mass extinction event by failing to meet women’s standards. Patriarchy is inevitable, and neither Feminists nor Incels can stop it – they can only rage against it.

Men will rule, because women desire rulers, and ruthlessly enforce their desire by culling men from the genome who are not fit to rule them.

The Purpose and Goodness of Patriarchy

Women have chosen Patriarchy, continue to choose and desire it, and will so until the coming of eternity, no matter how much Feminist ideology and propaganda a culture receives.

We should be thankful for this, because Patriarchy, the loving rule of a strong father, is not only what is best for women (and men too), but what is best for children as well. Indeed, the chief purpose of the Patriarchy is for the co-creation of children, and the raising of them to know the love of God the Father, the heavenly Patriarchy modeled to them by their earthly Patriarch.

And if we have forgotten, we should let children’s desire for and need of a loving father remind us of our own desire for and need of the loving rule of God the Father in our hearts.

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1

There is, of course, the “Gay Marriage/Boy Toy Exception/Phenomenon,” but that’s a topic for another article.

2

Now, Feminists will say that men shouldn’t be insecure and blame toxic masculinity for any insecurity. But that’s just because they want men to be better – if they were better they wouldn’t be so insecure.

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