Sex Without Consequences – The People Get What They Want
You cannot outlaw abortion in a fornication culture, at least in a democracy. The people will not stand for it, because in a democracy, the people get what they want. And in a fornication culture, what the people want is recreational sex, i.e. sex without consequences, simply for pleasure.
Conceiving a child is the ultimate consequence and is therefore anathema to recreational sex in the fornication culture. Thus, a people who engage in recreational sex naturally need a backup, and that backup is abortion.
Sex without consequences, therefore, logically results in abortion.
This is why whenever abortion is put on the ballot, even in deep-red Republican states such as Kansas and Ohio, abortion wins – because we as a society believe in sex without consequences. Abortion only “failed” on the ballot in Florida because it received 57% rather than the 60% required for a constitutional amendment, and Texas would likely see a similar result.
As it stands, abortion is only outlawed in Texas because the Legislature outlawed it symbolically when Roe was still the law of the land. They didn’t think they were actually outlawing abortion, and were surprised when Roe was actually overturned. We should not be surprised and should absolutely expect cowardly politicians to betray us and attempt to revive the barbaric industry in the state.
If that turns out to be the case, do we just accept the eventual defeat of the Pro-life cause, since we live in a fornication culture?
No. If abortion cannot be long outlawed in a fornication culture, then the Fornication Culture itself must be destroyed.
And the only way to destroy the Fornication Culture and make abortion illegal and unnecessary is to Restore the Patriarchy.
What is “The Patriarchy”?
The Patriarchy is the rule of earthly fathers, which must be patterned after the loving rule of God the Father. In so far as men participate in this loving rule of God the Father, they are rightful Patriarchs and rule over their homes, their families, their wives, and their children.
They are not co-equal partners in a business enterprise. They are not the tie-breaking vote in a democracy. They are not symbolic spiritual leaders with no real power and authority who have to submit to their wives.
They are rulers. When a spouse “has to check with the boss,” that means the wife needs to ask her husband, because he’s in charge, and she submits to him.
But what does the Patriarchy have to do with the Fornication Culture and abortion?
The Patriarchy is the ultimate protection against the Fornication Culture, and therefore abortion and the Culture of Death. The overthrow of the Patriarchy in our society, both the Patriarchy of God the Father, and the earthly Patriarchy, has removed this protection and enabled the Fornication Culture to flourish.
The Purpose of Sex and the Patriarchy of God the Father
The overthrow of the Patriarchy of God the Father is what enabled the rise of the Fornication Culture and its natural consequence, abortion. This overthrow took place when we as a people rejected the design, purpose, and meaning of His creation – sex.
God created sex with certain rules. No one these days likes rules, especially when it comes to sex, but the rules exist whether we want them to or not, and there are natural consequences for breaking them.
The rules for sex are simple, and are really just different implications of the One Rule:
“Don’t reject its purpose.”
God writes His purposes into nature and the very fabric of reality, and we can see God’s purpose and design for sex using our Reason.
The purpose of sex is to unite a man and a woman together in a loving and permanent relationship called marriage in order to make and raise babies. God’s plan for creation was for all new souls to be born into loving families, and he designed sex in order to enable that to happen, uniting its procreative nature with its unitive nature into one marital act.
Yet what God joined together, man has torn asunder.
Feminism’s Victory and the Overthrow of the Patriarchy
The name of the rebellion responsible for the overthrow of the Patriarchy is Feminism. Indeed, they are mortal enemies, and neither can live while the other survives.
Feminism styles itself as liberation, but it is a false liberation. Feminism is the removal of the protective restraints of the Patriarchy, starting with the Patriarchy of God the Father, and the unleashing of the Sexual Revolution and its consequences upon mankind.
The battle lines between the Patriarchy and Feminism are clear: the recognition and acceptance of limits, rules, and a purpose to sex under the Patriarchy, vs. their rejection under Feminism.
Over the last 50-60 years, the war has gone very badly. Feminism has largely crushed the Patriarchy, inflicting on it defeat after defeat until it was well and truly “Smashed,” as the feminists like to say.
But the smashing success of Feminism is deceptive, for it really only won one true victory, after which the rest was simply a series of inevitable logical consequences and retreating actions, by which Conservatives have gained their well-won reputation for always losing.
What was this victory?
Feminism’s chief and only real victory in the war between Patriarchy and Feminism was altering the purpose of sex by severing the procreative purpose of sex from the unitive purpose of sex.
This had the effect of destroying its meaning. The reason sex is pleasurable is because it is designed to bring a husband and a wife together in order for 1. The making of babies to happen and 2. The couple to stay together so that they are raised and loved by their mother and father.
Without procreation, sex is no longer even unitive, but simply pleasurable. Thus, Feminism’s great victory was its exaltation of The Pleasure Principle – the principle that the only essential purpose of sex is pleasure – in place of sex’s actual purpose, which is to unite a husband and wife into one flesh, where pleasure serves procreation.
It achieved this victory, of course, with the help of the invention and widespread propagation of hormonal birth control, a technological innovation that affected the course of the 20th Century as much as or more than the atom bomb, paving the way for our culture’s ubiquitous acceptance of contraception.
Today, as the harmful effects of hormonal birth control become more and more clear, some Feminists are now trying to reverse their position on the issue. But they cannot now erase their history, and their shame, as its greatest champions.
Hormonal contraception is the idea that women are naturally defective, so much so that in order to have sex they need to ingest chemicals in order to eliminate that most annoying and pesky aspect of about them – their ability to create, have, and care for babies. Hormonal contraception, far from being her liberation, is the subjugation of woman to the point of literally altering her moods, her desires, and her health, simply to serve the disordered sexual desire and economic schemes of men.
Some today call contraception “the real patriarchy,” taking for granted the wickedness of Patriarchy and the benevolence of Feminism.
They are deceived. It is Feminism that is evil, not Patriarchy. Always was, and always will be. God Our Father did not design women to be defective and sex to be bad and in need of Man’s correction. He made sex for our benefit, and gave us rules for its use which served to protect us, rules that Feminists, which sadly includes nearly everyone these days, disregarded.
But did Our Father not do anything to warn us against the dangers of the Feminist Sexual Revolt? Were we simply left to figure this out for ourselves using Reason alone?
The Gates of Hell Do Not Prevail – God’s Whisper of Warning
No. He did warn us, we just didn’t listen. Christianity has always been against contraception, from the Church Fathers to the Protestant (so-called) Reformers. Unfortunately, starting in 1930 with the Anglican Lambeth Council, the historic Protestant churches have all, one by one, caved on this truth. Both Evangelicalism and the (separated) Eastern Churches are likewise divided and powerless to authoritatively speak on the issue.
The only Church that still stands is the Catholic Church, because it is the only Church that has a divine guarantee that the “Gates of Hell shall not prevail against it.” Matthew 16:18. Despite her sinful and error prone leaders, The Holy Spirit prevents the Catholic Church, the Church founded by Christ, from caving on this issue. God did not leave us alone to “figure things out on our own” with just our Bible and our brain – “for lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the age,” teaching us to observe all that He commanded. Matthew 28:20. He does this through His Church, which he instituted as the divine “pillar and foundation of truth” that could speak authoritatively, such that “he who hears you hears me, and he who rejects you rejects me, and he who rejects me rejects Him who sent me. 1 Timothy 3:15, Luke 10:16.
To the dismay of the majority of his advisors who strongly urged the Pope to accept hormonal birth control, St. Pope Paul VI issued Humanae Vitae in 1968, reiterating the historic Christian condemnation of contraception and predicting the dire consequences that would follow. The majority of the Catholic bishops, successors to the Apostles, then did just what the Apostles themselves did in Christ’s hour of greatest need – they largely ran away, refusing to teach the important Christian truth about the purpose of sex and marriage.
They will be judged for their actions and their silence, which turned God’s Warning to the World into a Whisper that the world barely heard.
Thus, when the World refused to say to God on the issue of sex, “Thy will be done,” God gave the World up to its own desires, and said to it “Thy will be done.”
Natural Consequences – The Dominoes Fall
There is a feeling these days that sex has lost its meaning, but what’s really happened is we’ve rejected its meaning, or at least forgotten it. With the victory of Feminism and the substitution of The Pleasure Principle for the rules for sex put in place by God the Father, what happened next was simply the natural consequences of this disastrous defeat for The Patriarchy. As the Dominoes fell the defeats turn into a rout as the cultural implications of this Original Mistake compounded.
You Can’t Outlaw Abortion in a Fornication Culture
The first natural consequence of throwing off the bonds of the Patriarchy of God the Father was abortion.
The logic is simple and predictable – If sex doesn’t always have to be procreative, why does it always have to unite spouses? Why can’t it unite, temporarily at least, perhaps permanently later, non-married couples who are dating? After all, as long as everyone consents to and enjoys the sex, there’s no harm in sex before marriage.
But that’s not true. There is an essential and intrinsic element of commitment to sex, because of its essential and intrinsic procreative nature. It chemically bonds us to another person, and that’s why it hurts so much if the sexual relationship ends.
When we choose to have sex without commitment, we are choosing to lie with our bodies. We’re doing something that by nature we desire to do exclusively with them, not only then but forever. And when we haven’t married them, when we haven’t promised to actually be with them forever, it’s a lie.
And when we lie with our bodies, is it any wonder that the result is death? Being a moral monster in the context of abortion doesn’t come out of nowhere – it follows directly from being a moral monster when it comes to sex. If you have sex outside of marriage, you are lying with your body and putting your own short-term sexual desires above the long-term good of the other person. And when you prioritize your own desires over the good of the other person when it comes to sex, it is entirely natural for you do the same with the consequences of sex – the child. Indeed, to have a change of heart and keep the baby requires real moral courage.
The chief difficulty for the pro-choice movement thus far has been that abortion is so obviously murder. But the problem for the pro-life movement is that that’s not enough to win – the other side knows that it’s murder. They just don’t think sex without consequences should ever force you to have the Ultimate Consequence – a child. They reject sex’s essential and intrinsic procreative nature.
As long as we operate under the same premises as the pro-choice movement and encourage the Fornication Culture, we will be unable to decisively defeat the pro-choice movement.
The Fall of the Earthly Patriarchy – Man Loses His Crown
Men are meant to be leaders. They are meant to participate in the Patriarchy of God the Father, and are instituted as earthly Patriarchs in order to lead their families.
One of the reasons God placed man in this leadership role is because man is supposed to be a protector – Man has authority because he has responsibility.
With his acceptance of the Fornication Culture and Abortion, man rejected his role as the protector of woman, with both the authority and the responsibility that entailed. He therefore lost earthly recognition of his authority, while gaining legal supervision of his responsibilities.
This is easy to see with abortion, because abortion is the ultimate rejection of fatherhood and the abdication of responsibility for the consequences of sex (fatherhood). There is no greater rejection of man’s role as protector than leaving a woman pregnant without committing to her, forcing her to choose between abortion and being a single-mom. This is why, wherever abortion is legal, it is a woman’s sole “right” to abort “her” child. The man has no say, the child is not his, and if she decides to keep it he will have whatever “authority” she and the state decide to allow, and whatever responsibilities she and the state decide to enforce.
Man sought to be free, and found himself a slave.
But, you might ask, what about the woman?? Isn’t she responsible too???
And here we see the denial of the Patriarchy. Yes woman is responsible, and she should of course be held responsible for her actions. But it is man who was placed in a position of authority and given responsibility under the Patriarchy of God the Father. Adam doesn’t restore the Patriarchy by pointing to Eve.
Women carry the majority of the consequences of sex by nature. This is why women inherently need and desire commitment with sex, and why women end up hurt by the Fornication Culture when they attempt to have sex without consequences – Women can never have sex without consequences.
That’s why we have marriage, which is a commitment by man to share in those consequences. Sex outside of marriage is always an unfair trade for women, and when a man engages in sex without commitment, he commits an injustice against the woman.
Men implicitly understand this injustice and woman’s need for commitment in sex. Thus, when he choses to disregard that need for commitment solely on the basis of her consent, he actively undermines any belief in his authority. Why would he have a right to rule over her in marriage if he is actively harming her before marriage? When he fails to exercise self-control and denies his responsibility to protect her, even from herself, he denies his authority and loses his crown.
When abortion prevails, Patriarchy dies. But the Fornication Culture killed it.
Marriage Outlawed
With the Fall of the Earthly Patriarchy, what seemed to be only a minor defeat for the Patriarchy turned into a rout. The Dominoes fell one by one, in rapid succession.
Once the culture no longer viewed sex as ordered towards children, marriage soon followed. If the only purpose of sex is individual pleasure, why would not the only purpose of marriage be individual self-satisfaction as well? If sex shouldn’t always have essential and inherent responsibilities, why then should marriage? If sex is no longer sacred, then why would marriage be?
No-fault divorce naturally followed. The entire purpose of marriage originally was having children and fostering a loving union because of children. We have now inverted this relationship – the entire institution now exists solely at the pleasure and whim of the individual parties, to the detriment of the couple itself and certainly their children.
Marriage is now illegal in all 50 states. Today you cannot enter into a binding marriage contract anywhere in the United States – the family law courts will hold your marriage contract null and void for reasons of public policy. If you break your promise to sell apples for a certain price the courts will award damages, but if you break your marriage vows the court will assist you in doing so.
This legal dismantling of marriage removed an incentive of man to marry. Marriage was previously the requirement of women as the price of sex. But with the outlawing of marriage, the Fornication Culture proved to be too tempting of an alternative.
The Real Destruction of Marriage
But the real destruction of marriage wasn’t committed by courts, but by couples themselves when they first rejected, and then forgot, their roles as husband and wife, father and mother.
The job of a husband and father is to protect and provide. The job of a wife and mother is to care and support. Everyone knows this deep down, but our culture is rebelling against this truth. You can almost hear the feminist screeching in the background, but it’s because they reject God’s design and the purpose of marriage and sex – the making and raising of children.
When couples started having less kids, (the “fruit” of contraception), they forgot their primary job. Husbands forgot that it’s his job to provide, not his wife’s. This enabled wives to forget that it’s her job to support her husband in his mission, not to have her own separate mission, which necessarily sacrifices the well-being of her children.
As the State grew in size due to his abdication of responsibility and authority, Fathers forgot that it’s their job to protect their wife and their kids from any and all threats, This enabled Mothers to forget that it’s their job to care for their children, not the State’s as she ships them off to the local daycare (public school).
The culture labeled this abdication of roles “progress,” and “the advancement of women.” It has waged an economic and educational war to implement its own vision of marriage, as well as a war in the English language itself to crush any resistance that may arise.
Being a wife and a mother is a full-time job, but it is labeled in everyday parlance as being “just a stay-at-home mom,” or as being a “house-wife.”
It’s called being a wife and a mom. It’s called doing her job, rather than something trivial and stupid in an office that sacrifices the well-being of her husband and her children.
Women today are made to feel inadequate and ashamed if they want to be a (full-time) wife and mother, but no one labels those women not doing their (real) jobs “stay-at-work wives,” or “part-time moms.”
Maybe they should.
Today we don’t actually know what a wife and a mother is supposed to do, because we’ve forgotten what her job was even supposed to be in the first place. People will actually ask what a wife is “supposed to do all day” because they literally just don’t know.
A Wife is supposed to be the Chief Operations Officer of the small business known as The Family. She’s a teacher. She’s a nurse. She’s a high-powered consultant for any and all issues that may arise in familial management and operations. She’s a potential CFO, CTO, Interior Decorator, Hostess, Cook, and yes, Maid. Her job is to be the Mistress of many trades, an intelligent and knowledgeable Renaissance woman, and the personal assistant to the CEO (the Husband, obviously).
Offended? You’re a Feminist and a fool who believes that a woman is free when she serves soulless corporations that do not love her, whereas she is a slave when she serves her husband and family who do.
There has been no greater psyop in human history. Who would rather work late for some random dude who you (hopefully) don’t even have sex with rather than the one person in the world who married you, loves you and would die for you, and would probably let you take a nap and read a book during the day while he works for you?
It is no surprise that a culture where marriage looks more and more just like roommates living together who have sex, with no sex-specific roles, would just start living together and having sex outside of marriage instead as they follow the same life script (men’s) - start your career, gain worldly experience, then think about getting married.
This plays right into the Fornication Culture, which certainly wants you to have plenty of time to gain “experience” before you get married. Very few people, men or women, are able to wait until they are 25 or 30 to have sex. So they don’t.
Thus, it no surprise that a culture that no longer understands sex-specific roles and only (grudgingly) views being a full-time mom or not as a choice, no matter how it affects her children, also views being a mother at all as a choice… no matter how it “affects” her “products of conception.”
Sexual Madness, Sexual Abuse
Marriage having already been destroyed, gay “marriage” was inevitable. If marriage has no specific purpose and man and woman have no sex-specific roles in marriage, it naturally follows that marriage should no longer be sex specific. It’s simply a further extension of The Pleasure Principle that two people can get “married” based on sexual desire and pleasure alone, without any reference to children and procreative sex. Of course, once gay “marriage” was accepted, kids were brought back into the picture, now though subject entirely to the desires and whims of false fathers and anti-mothers, who can now deprive a child of a mother and a father because of their perverse sexual ideology, even to the point of ordering children as commodities in a catalogue through IVF and surrogacy.
Absolutely monstrous.
Should we be surprised that a culture that would support such moral outrages would provide fertile ground for the trans-gender madness currently sweeping the nation? For some it’s a sexual fetish, simply another extension of The Pleasure Principle, while for others it’s a horrific abuse perpetrated on them by predatory parents, doctors, and teachers. Such abuse never would’ve been allowed under the protections of the Patriarchy, with its rules grounded in nature and reason, but was entirely predictable in a culture that subjects children to the sexual ideologies of their parents.
Today, where we have redefined not only the definition of marriage but the definitions of man and woman themselves, most people don’t even question the redefined meaning of sex that was and is necessary for the Fornication Culture to exist - sex solely for pleasure, divorced from procreation.
Sexual Hellscape – Can Man and Woman Love Again?
Now here we are. The destruction of Patriarchy in our society has unleashed the fury of sexual sin and its devastating and tragic consequences. The Fornication Culture is triumphant and ubiquitous, with pornography and Onlyfans serving to further demoralize men and women, giving them the appearance of what they deeply desire, but leading only to despair.
Both men and women are full of distrust and resentment of each other and disappointment and disgust at themselves. A core part of our identity, our sexuality, is now a source of pain and sadness rather than peace and joy.
Man hurts woman because he abdicates his responsibility to protect her, and woman rejects all authority, which leaves her unprotected.
Man now secretly longs for the responsibilities of marriage, which he previously rejected, if only they would come with its blessings. But he has lost his Helpmeet, and his civilization is in ruins.
Woman now secretly looks around for her leader and protector, despite openly disclaiming she needs any such thing. But she has been betrayed by him, and now finds only menace or weakness.
We know this is not how it should be. We know that we messed up somewhere along the way. This is not what God our Father intended, and it’s why he put in place His rules around sex – in order to protect us, because He loves us.
All may appear lost, but the only true defeat is when men and women drop their crowns and, in their despair, do not pick them back up again. When we fail to ask forgiveness from God our Father, if we don’t believe in his love and we reject his forgiveness, then at last the Patriarchy is truly defeated.
Children of the Revolution and The Return of the Patriarchy
But this is cause for hope, not despair, because despite this Sexual Hellscape we’ve inherited, we have Christ, who came to make us Sons and Daughters of God the Father. His promise that “you are my beloved son, in whom I am well pleased” is for us. Matthew 3:17. There is forgiveness for sexual sin, and as long as we draw breath, He will always take us back if we repent. We are tired of the Fornication Culture, but He says “Come to me, all you who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28.
We are all Children of the Revolution now. No one has been left untouched by the Sexual Revolution and its consequences. The only way out is the Return of the Patriarchy, to restore the rule of God the Father and his plan for sex, and man’s participation in the Fatherhood of God through his earthly patriarchy by once again protecting society, men, women, and children, from the disastrous consequences of misusing one of God’s greatest gifts, sex.
If you’re a young man, it’s time to quit watching porn, quit sleeping around, start lifting weights, and start going to Church to worship the One True God, Jesus Christ, the God-man who came down to save us from our sins. You have been denied all authority by everyone around you, but it is not given to the powers of this world to deny the Return of the Patriarchy. Your authority to rule as Patriarch of your family was given to you by God the Father. So don’t marry a woman who doesn’t want to be your wife and the mother of your children. If she’s a feminist who thinks that’s a part-time job, dump her. If she thinks her boss is in an office and not at home, that better be your office and not some other man’s office. You have to lead – she can’t follow if you don’t lead. But she will if you do. Women sense strength and integrity.
If you’re a young woman, it’s time to reject the lies of feminism that have been told to you. Your job doesn’t care about you – you shouldn’t care about it either. There has never been a more anti-feminine culture than there is now, and there is no more maligned vocation than yours, to be a wife and a mom. Remember, men’s jobs are their curse, not their blessing, and all careers serve the ultimate career, which is motherhood. You’re not “just a stay at home mom,” or a “house-wife” – God created you to be a helpmeet because your Husband needs you. The best way to help him probably isn’t working in some office away from him. Pursue truth, beauty, and goodness, not a career. And remember that sex outside marriage will only cause pain and hurt.
To the older generations – we need your help. Older women should re-read Titus 2 in an open-minded way, and think about how they should be raising their daughters in a culture that enslaves them and calls itself liberation. Older men should remember and, if necessary, reclaim their mantle of authority to rule over themselves and their households, and that includes not just their children but their wives.
None of this is supposed to be easy. It will be hard, very hard, but we must take up our cross and follow Him.
How We Will Outlaw Abortion
You cannot outlaw abortion in a Fornication Culture. This is why the pro-life movement has stumbled since the fall of Roe vs. Wade, because it has done little to eliminate the Fornication Culture.
It has done little because it did not know how. You cannot eliminate the Fornication Culture without Restoring the Patriarchy. Therefore, the only way to outlaw abortion is to Restore the Patriarchy.
It's 2025 now. The Overton window has shifted and will continue to shift. Patriarchy is the Pro-life movement’s next frontier. With the overturn of Roe, the game has changed. The battle lines have become clear and now it’s time to play to win. Man’s abdication of his responsibility in allowing for abortion was a result of his abdication of his authority. Restore man’s belief in his authority, and you will restore his belief in his responsibility.
Unless and until the pro-life movement and its leaders commit to fight for the restoration of the Patriarchy, it is destined for failure in every state in America.
Our Feminist dystopia will not last much longer. It’s time for the Return of the Patriarchy.
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